It always scares me when someone lies to me. When I spot, or sense, a lie I always put a "question mark" on that subject, with that person, because its means they're hiding or protecting something. Which is just cause for pause. You have to wonder why they'd lie. Now I'm rhyming.
Anyways, to continue the point, it doesn't matter to me who the person is or what they're relationship to me.... the point is that "something to hide" makes me assume some significance to the issue. Which makes me curious.
As I've gotten older and dealt with more people in more situations... alot of which came through sales/business, I've become good at seeing these little things, or having an intuition as to someone's behind the scenes thoughts.
The sad thing is that almost everyone lies, or positions, or "sells". People have a lot to hide or want things from people... and many are willing to decieve to do that. Its just a little scary.
But then when i think about it.... its because people are scared.... they are afraid of what others think and so they lie out of pride. Thats nothing to be afraid of..... as long as you know that.
The next layer is that its hard to even always be honest with yourself. I try very hard to do that, but i must acknowledge its easy to talk yourself into "what feels good". I think in the end, thats a trap, better to think long term when you feel that impulse.
The extention of the previous paragraph is that sometimes when someone is dishonest to you, its because they're dishonest with themselves. The 'ID' doesn't tell the 'EGO' what its doing. That may or may not be scary... i guess its either harmless... or REALLY SCARY ;-)
I'm obscensed with logical deduction and this honesty issue.
Do other people think like this? Maybe my analysis has gotten out of hand? Let me know.
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UPDATE
It has :-)
Anyways, to continue the point, it doesn't matter to me who the person is or what they're relationship to me.... the point is that "something to hide" makes me assume some significance to the issue. Which makes me curious.
As I've gotten older and dealt with more people in more situations... alot of which came through sales/business, I've become good at seeing these little things, or having an intuition as to someone's behind the scenes thoughts.
The sad thing is that almost everyone lies, or positions, or "sells". People have a lot to hide or want things from people... and many are willing to decieve to do that. Its just a little scary.
But then when i think about it.... its because people are scared.... they are afraid of what others think and so they lie out of pride. Thats nothing to be afraid of..... as long as you know that.
The next layer is that its hard to even always be honest with yourself. I try very hard to do that, but i must acknowledge its easy to talk yourself into "what feels good". I think in the end, thats a trap, better to think long term when you feel that impulse.
The extention of the previous paragraph is that sometimes when someone is dishonest to you, its because they're dishonest with themselves. The 'ID' doesn't tell the 'EGO' what its doing. That may or may not be scary... i guess its either harmless... or REALLY SCARY ;-)
I'm obscensed with logical deduction and this honesty issue.
Do other people think like this? Maybe my analysis has gotten out of hand? Let me know.
______________________
UPDATE
It has :-)
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